I am no hair expert by any means but I do get questions from our community and when I do, I go seek out answers.
Because our Second Life Hair Butter is such a hit with our curly hair community, I sought the expertise of one expert who has been working specifically with curly hair for YEARS.
Hair Guru Scott Musgrave answers your curly hair questions.
(Scroll down to listen to my interview with Scott.)
In a nutshell, here are Scott’s recommendations:
Steps to create curly hair you can’t help but embrace.
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Start with a mentality change. “Curly hair doesn’t need to be fixed. It needs to be embraced,” says Scott. Your hair has been cut with tools and methods made for straight hair, and you’ve been using products that have created the frizz. What if you your hair didn’t frizz or have a triangle shape? Would you wear it curly?
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Stop towel drying your hair (use a t-shirt instead), and put away the flat iron and brush forever.
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Make sure the cleansers you use on your hair are: water soluble, silicone-free and sulfate-free. (You’re used to calling them shampoos, but Scott calls them cleansers.) Sulfates explode your hair and it becomes frizzy. If you doing the no ‘poo method, read this first.
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Rub your scalp to stimulate hair growth.
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Swap out your cotton pillowcase with a satin pillowcase.
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Have your hair cut by someone using the “Curl by Curl” technique. He or she should be taking a clump of curl (grouping formation) and cut more on the loose curls and less on the tighter curls. Scott talks about this in more detail in the interview.
Every now and then I get a question about our Second Life hair butter.
Here’s one: “I have very coarse, hair and frizzy underneath the top layer. I colored it naturally with henna and love it! I’m always looking for products/remedies for the frizzy stuff! Would your product help?”
Is it as simple as a product fix? While I worked the product with certain hair types in mind, I felt that just like with dry skin and eczema, there’s likely a deeper issue at hand that could possibly be fixed with a change in the way we cut, style, or work on our hair. I asked my newsletter list what type of hair issues they had, and over 500 people responded.
COMMONLY ASKED QUESTIONS RELATED TO HAIR CARE:
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frizz (will it ever go away?)
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products and their ingredients (what’s safe, what’s not)
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flat irons, brushes, relaxers and chemical treatments (should I or shouldn’t I?)
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unevenly curly hair
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hair breakage
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hair loss
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no-poo method: how can I get it to work for me?
I needed a professional.
I called on Scott Musgrave, who has spent the past 30 years professionally and experientially learning everything he could about curly and wavy hair. I came armed with my questions and he graciously answered them.
Who is Scott Musgrave? Scott has been cutting hair professionally since 1986, he has implemented the CURLYS method of training for stylists working specifically with curly hair, and he created Curly Hair Artistry, a place where Curly Hair Stylists are trained to learn all things possible with hair that’s curly, wavy, coily and/or multi-cultural.
The interview lasted almost an hour, but I summarized hi main points above.
It’s worth a listen, however, to get Scott’s full message.
To hear the entire interview, CLICK HERE: https://hardlotion.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/08/ScottHairInterview.mp3
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Hair Product Reviews
Second Life Hair Butter is just the bomb. Great control for frizzies, yet doesn't leave your hair greasy. Perfect product, that's why I have been using it for several years.
Myself and both my daughters love this cream! I use it on my dry scalp, especially along my hair line and part before a shower, then after shampooing I add it to my palms and rub it onto my ends and any tangled areas. I allow the heat of the shower to melt it into my hair and then brush through. Not only does it do an amazing job for tangled hair it also keeps frizz away for days longer than any other conditioner or leave in treatment!
My daughter with oily wavy hair only uses it on her ends and flyaways but it is SO helpful for her. We both love the amazing smell and shine it gives our hair! Plus when we are done or have extra we just rub it into our hands or legs, as the ingredients double as an amazing lotion!!
I have short hair and loved the second Life Hair butter, leaves my hair soft and shiny. My adult children notices how great my hair looks and that was it , I am ordering more product today so I have what I need. Love all your products . Thank You Carolyn
I purchased this for my neighbors toddler and it was a hit! Tamed the frizz and left a nice shine for several days with no greasy feeling. Will be ordering again.
I was a little afraid of using this on fine hair, but it worked great to smooth the ends and keep fly-aways in control. Love it!
My daughter has naturally curly/wavy hair. I've tried so many different curly products and this is, by far, the best. It calms the super curly parts and invigorates the wavy parts so her hair texture is smooth, has a more even curl pattern, and is so super soft!! Never greasy, and a little goes a long way! Love it!
I’ve tried all kinds of gels, etc but had not found one that I liked well enough to repurchase….now I have. It really does take just a small amount.
This is my go-to travel or purse balm. It smoothed hair works as a face or hand lotion, or lip balm in a pinch. Smells great too! Love it.
This is the only product I have found that will keep my flyaways contained. I have slightly wavy hair and have always had a corona of frizz. I got this and started putting in on after washing my hair, and between washdays as needed.
I love the shampoo bar. I normally purchase a brand from my beauty salon but have switched to the shampoo bar. Gets my hair squeaky clean and shiny. I no longer need to use conditioner.
Just sad I didnt get a bigger bar. This shampoo bar is works wonders on my hair. Also smells wonderful.
I love your products but regarding the shampoo bar it lathered well but stripped some coloring from my hair. It I ever let my hair go grey, I'll be able to use it!
The shampoo lathers so easily and I only need a little bit to wash my hair. Feels clean but not drying for my hair!
I like that my hair is squeaky clean. Rinses out really well. I will buy again. And recommend for anyone. I know it says curly but I think too often we have had a build up from commercial products.
It took a couple of weeks of saying I wasn’t sure about this, but I tried several times and when things clicked, they really clicked. I love this bar, hate that each time I try to get more it’s sold out. And that gets old. So, in frustration I ordered someone else’s product. It is different enough that my hair is getting used to it, but the bar is disappearing fast. There’s no way this will last at the rate it’s disappearing. So, I came to order more and, It’s SOLD OUT. So, order more than you want
I’m about three weeks into this shampoo bar and am enjoying it very much! I have fine, aging/thining hair. First one or two uses was unsure but after that works great!
Before I began using this shampoo bar, I honestly had lost hope that anything could help my fine, thinning hair feel anything close to normal ever again. Until now that is. Not only do I love how much softer and heavier my hair is after using it 3-times a week for almost a month now - I am beyond words when I see how much less hair-fall happens after shampooing now. I am so grateful to have this in my life. My hair, and my heart, thanks you.
I wasn't expecting much but thought I'd try the shampoo bar. FYI, I have not used shampoo in about 10 years. I was so impressed, I have fine dry hair that gets static-y. This bar is amazing, it leaves my hair clean and moisturized at the same time. The scent of this bar is heavenly👼 I will be adding this to my beauty routine for sure. The sample is small, but it goes a long way...
Love the idea that it will travrel well! No scent which I like and so moisturizing!
This Lotion Bar is so moisterizing. My hands feel soft and smooth. It's very easy to use and I can take it with me anywhere.
Perfect for on the go
Great product
Was so excited to get this bar but it is so dry I can't smoothe it along my arm. I have to scrape some off then let it warm up on my skin to smoothe out
Linda,
It could be for one of three reasons:
1.) it's cooler where you live... we just recently swapped out our Beesilk recipe to add a tad more beeswax than our winter recipe. It's something we've done every year for the past 17 years in order to maintain smoothness and accommodate higher heat.
2.) if your skin tends to be on the cool side - it may take a bit more 'hand-holding' where you can keep the bar in your hands longer to naturally warm up before absorbing.
3.) rare, but not impossible: the batch had too much beeswax added to it. I watch the customer feedback closely and if this happens, we are happy to replace it.
Customer Support: Reach out to me at renee@hardlotion.com and we'll happily either replace your bar or refund it.
I really like the way it stays on my skin. I have cold hands, so it take a little bit to warm up to spread on my skin.
I love how my skin feels, but the bar gets slippery. Is there any way to make a refillable applicator for a full sized bar?
I really liked the Beesilk Lotion! It was a bit on the greasy side but it really moisturized my skin and it felt so soft and soothing! ❣️
This bar softened my hands the first time I tried it. I had rubbed it in my hands for a short time and put it away. I rubbed my hands together on both sides. They were soft and non-greasy. I love it. If will be great to carry with me on a vacation.
This has become my main moisturizer for face and body. I love that it has all natural ingredients and is healthy for my skin and body. Even my son, who is sensitive to scents and has some sensory sensitivities loves it for his eczema. Very satisfied and have reordered several times! I keep a large tin at home, plus a couple of small ones for my purse and car!
It doesn’t need to be applied as often as vaseline to keep eczema patches moisturized.
We enjoy Beesilk Junior because it's easy and effective!
Before I turn off the light, I open my Lavender Bee Silk Junior and put it on my hands. It feels and SMELLS so good. I love the softness it provides and I think it's perfect!
My hands get very very dry, I wash them often but a little bit of this salve goes a long way! It leaves my skin feeling and looking so soft! I love it and will be repurchasing when I run out!
I bought this for my toddler. She has a very dry spot in her foot. This is helping that to heal!
When it comes to skin care, especially if I need it to be moisturizing, I am beyond-picky. Seriously, if it doesn't work, I won't bother to use it - but this Beesilk Jr? Oh my. Not only is it non greasy, but because it works like a dream to moisturize my sensitive, over-reactive skin that - for well over a year now - I love the results so much that I've used it as an all-body lotion after a shower every. single. day.
I ordered the Lavender Beesilk Junior and what I received was relaxation in a tin! The bar is softer than their original Beesilk, and it’s perfect for sensitive skin, especially newly healed scars. The scent is delightful, mild and not overpowering.
Love the Junior Lavendar lotion and am never without it. I have a small tin for purse/travel and the large size in my bathroom. I keep it open on my counter so I never fail to swipe it when I walk into another part of the house. Does wonders for my cuticles, hands, elbows &. more. Love that it’s so clean that I never have to worry about bad chemicals. My kids get the small ones in their stockings every year! Smells great and never overwhelms. Get yours now!