I am no hair expert by any means but I do get questions from our community and when I do, I go seek out answers.
Because our Second Life Hair Butter is such a hit with our curly hair community, I sought the expertise of one expert who has been working specifically with curly hair for YEARS.
Hair Guru Scott Musgrave answers your curly hair questions.
(Scroll down to listen to my interview with Scott.)
In a nutshell, here are Scott’s recommendations:
Steps to create curly hair you can’t help but embrace.
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Start with a mentality change. “Curly hair doesn’t need to be fixed. It needs to be embraced,” says Scott. Your hair has been cut with tools and methods made for straight hair, and you’ve been using products that have created the frizz. What if you your hair didn’t frizz or have a triangle shape? Would you wear it curly?
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Stop towel drying your hair (use a t-shirt instead), and put away the flat iron and brush forever.
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Make sure the cleansers you use on your hair are: water soluble, silicone-free and sulfate-free. (You’re used to calling them shampoos, but Scott calls them cleansers.) Sulfates explode your hair and it becomes frizzy. If you doing the no ‘poo method, read this first.
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Rub your scalp to stimulate hair growth.
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Swap out your cotton pillowcase with a satin pillowcase.
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Have your hair cut by someone using the “Curl by Curl” technique. He or she should be taking a clump of curl (grouping formation) and cut more on the loose curls and less on the tighter curls. Scott talks about this in more detail in the interview.
Every now and then I get a question about our Second Life hair butter.
Here’s one: “I have very coarse, hair and frizzy underneath the top layer. I colored it naturally with henna and love it! I’m always looking for products/remedies for the frizzy stuff! Would your product help?”
Is it as simple as a product fix? While I worked the product with certain hair types in mind, I felt that just like with dry skin and eczema, there’s likely a deeper issue at hand that could possibly be fixed with a change in the way we cut, style, or work on our hair. I asked my newsletter list what type of hair issues they had, and over 500 people responded.
COMMONLY ASKED QUESTIONS RELATED TO HAIR CARE:
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frizz (will it ever go away?)
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products and their ingredients (what’s safe, what’s not)
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flat irons, brushes, relaxers and chemical treatments (should I or shouldn’t I?)
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unevenly curly hair
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hair breakage
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hair loss
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no-poo method: how can I get it to work for me?
I needed a professional.
I called on Scott Musgrave, who has spent the past 30 years professionally and experientially learning everything he could about curly and wavy hair. I came armed with my questions and he graciously answered them.
Who is Scott Musgrave? Scott has been cutting hair professionally since 1986, he has implemented the CURLYS method of training for stylists working specifically with curly hair, and he created Curly Hair Artistry, a place where Curly Hair Stylists are trained to learn all things possible with hair that’s curly, wavy, coily and/or multi-cultural.
The interview lasted almost an hour, but I summarized hi main points above.
It’s worth a listen, however, to get Scott’s full message.
To hear the entire interview, CLICK HERE: https://hardlotion.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/08/ScottHairInterview.mp3
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Hair Product Reviews
I purchased this for my neighbors toddler and it was a hit! Tamed the frizz and left a nice shine for several days with no greasy feeling. Will be ordering again.
I was a little afraid of using this on fine hair, but it worked great to smooth the ends and keep fly-aways in control. Love it!
My daughter has naturally curly/wavy hair. I've tried so many different curly products and this is, by far, the best. It calms the super curly parts and invigorates the wavy parts so her hair texture is smooth, has a more even curl pattern, and is so super soft!! Never greasy, and a little goes a long way! Love it!
I’ve tried all kinds of gels, etc but had not found one that I liked well enough to repurchase….now I have. It really does take just a small amount.
This is my go-to travel or purse balm. It smoothed hair works as a face or hand lotion, or lip balm in a pinch. Smells great too! Love it.
This is the only product I have found that will keep my flyaways contained. I have slightly wavy hair and have always had a corona of frizz. I got this and started putting in on after washing my hair, and between washdays as needed.
My appreciation for all things MadeOn increases with continued use, especially if I temporarily have to use something else. Years ago, long before the pandemic, ;D I had a favorite hair product that was strong enough to hold the sides of my hair up in a tight bun without shedding like dandruff throughout the day. It was like gorilla glue for hair and worked well in heated, humid conditions. Then, I decided to give Second Life Hair Butter a try. It could “glue” my hair up into my tight bun, but afterwards I noticed that my hair wasn’t stiff, brittle or dry like with the “other product” I’d been using. I could use a lot less product, too. It was gentler on my “vintage” hair, but strong enough to tame the increasingly uninhibited, wiry silver tinsel appearing in my dark hair. Then…it ran out. Not my silver tinsel, my Second Life Hair Butter was out of stock, in my own cupboard and at MadeOn! While I waited for MadeOn to contact me when it was back in stock, I went back to my old hair product to use in this emergency. My love for it was not the same! Since our previous experience, I had discovered better, I wanted better, I needed better. Better is Second Life Hair Butter. I’m usually a very frugal person, but when my Second Life Hair Butter arrived, without a second thought I carelessly tossed my almost-full old stand-by in the trash. I deserved better, and now, I had better, Second Life Hair Butter. YAY! :D
I have curly hair. This stuff works great on it.
Have not used this product yet. I have fine hair and it might weigh it down.
I first got a sample of the shampoo bar, my husband tried it and liked it so I got more. Then I tried it and really like it also. I asked him why he liked it - besides making his used-to-be-thick but now thinning hair, seem thicker, he likes it because using it in the shower the soap touches the rest of him as he rinses it out, but it doesn't irritate his skin like the shampoo we were using. I like it because my hair color seems to last longer and look more natural than when using regular shampoo, and it feels clean!
I ordered the shampoo bar by mistake. I decided to give it a try. My fine, 62-year-old hair didn't seem to like it much, but I tried it again. My hair was better after that, and just keeps getting nicer. Great product! Thank you!
The shampoo bar is easy to use and leaves the hair clean and shiny as well as fluffy which I like. My hair is gray and earlobe length. I tried it without conditioner the first time and had a problem with static when dry. I had to keep spraying my hair with water after brushing or combing, so it would lay down. I liked the feel of it and It was easy to comb, but was hoping I would not need to use conditioner. The next time I used a small amount of my usual conditioner, and it was better, but still need to be wetted down periodically. It is winter here, so I will have to wait until summer to find out if the humidity helps.
Barbara,
I would try apple cider vinegar every now and then after washing with the shampoo bar. It's an easy way to condition your hair and the smell of vinegar will go away quickly. Works like a charm!
Renee
I am very impressed with the shampoo bar. Lathers well and my hair feels so clean. My husband is allergic to quite a number of ingredients and he is able to use this (as well as the goat milk soap) with no issues. I love the that there are so few ingredients (all of which I can pronounce)!)
This shampoo bar is very soft and really bubbly. Makes scalp feel silky.
Love, love, love this shampoo bar! Smells great and really cleans my hair and scalp!
10/10 stars! Can like this enough!!! Easy to use and take with me on trips. Love the way it makes my hair feel!
Having used a similar natural , minimal ingredient list, oil-based shampoo for my hair for the last decade, I wasn't feeling the need to try the Shampoo Bar. The concept sounded...well, a little weird. But, in an attempt to get over the free shipping threshold, I decided I'd finally try it. AND I'M SO GLAD I DID! It is simple enough to use and it left my hair feeling so soft and nourished. I have fairly curly hair and the Shampoo Bar is doing something great to my curls...I seem to barely need any product in my hair lately! Amazing! I am convinced...and I'm hooked :)
I currently use a shampoo bar from another company and love it. I wanted to try this one as I do like your products and wanted to switch. It really dried my hair out to where I thought it had been damaged. I have very fine hair so I think that is the reason. I’m using the bar now as a hand soap to see if it helps with very dry winter skin. It seems to help!
Best hand moisturizer EVER! Thank you for such an amazing product, Renée!
Leaves such a smooth, hydrated feeling!
I use this everyday
Buy enough to share
I ordered 3 bars 2 as gifts and one for myself. It's wonderful great feeling on hands and feet after just a couple of days. I'll be a repeat customer for sure
No change in skin look or feel. Messy in warm weather
I decided to give this a try even though I have half a dozen different creams/lotions that claim to deliver the solution for my hands and feet. Finally! Simple ingredients and lasting softening. Gotta order more.
I bought this product specifically for travel and have used it on both my body and hands. It's a bit trickier to apply to legs and arms than to hands, but it moisturizes well.
I’ve tried zillions of moisturizers for my chronically dry hands, and BeeSilk is far and away the very best.
When we have Santa Ana’s ( hot winds from the desert) my skin begins to itch and flake and I am miserable. So now I cover my whole body in Beesilk. I immediately feel better and even the next day I am still moist. This is a fantastic mixture of barrier oils that hold in all the natural oils I have on my skin. Such a great discovery
It stays on even when you wash your hands. I love it
My 17-year-old son has been using this for less than 2 weeks on a patch of eczema on his wrist. It has all but disappeared and the discomfort is gone. Thank you!
After trying (and loving!) Second Life Hair Butter to moisturize my hands (in addition to my hair), I figured Beesilk Jr. would be a close replication. While it is a slightly harder formulation than Second Life, Beesilk Jr. is a wonderfully soothing moisturizer for my hands, feet, elbows, etc. I have also found it to be great to use to support healing on many types of skin "boo boos" such as minor scrapes, cuts, and bruises.
During a recent MadeOn sale I stocked up on the full-sized Beesilk Jr. for myself and as future gifts for my sister and friends. I love it!!!
This product has helped my husband and his siblings and nephew with dry, flaky patches under their eyes. Three simple ingredients, but so soothing and effective. Highly recommended!
This product has helped my husband and his siblings and nephew with dry, flaky patches under their eyes. Three simple ingredients, but so soothing and effective. Highly recommended!
This product has helped my husband and his siblings and nephew with dry, flaky patches under their eyes. Three simple ingredients, but so soothing and effective. Highly recommended!
I've found that my husband and some others in his family have flaky skin under their eyes. I had my husband try a very gentle moisturizer and it burned and irritated his skin. Bee Silk is the answer we've been looking for and I've bought several sizes and forms and given them to family. So simple, just 3 ingredients, but are so helpful, soothing, and effective. Thanks!
I initially bought this product for some dryness I was having behind my ear, but was also able to use it after getting a spot cauterized. Very soothing.